- Amazon FBA pitfalls, Amazon FBA vs DTC, Brand equity strategies, Building a brand in 2025, Creator economy truths, Customer loyalty through experience, How to escape Amazon dependency, Sell digital and physical products independently, Shopify vs Amazon, Teka Originals brand story, Why owning your brand matters
- Stephen Matthews
Part 2: The Financial Difference Between Owning Your Brand vs. Renting Your Sales

Let’s rip the Band-Aid off now. If you’re selling on Amazon, you’re renting your future. It’s like living in a fully furnished apartment—sure, it’s convenient, but you’re paying a premium for furniture you’ll never own and a kitchen you can’t remodel. Meanwhile, your landlord (Amazon) is profiting off your rent, your effort, and your customer data.
Why Owning Your Brand Pays Off—Literally
When you build your brand independently, every email collected, every DM replied to, every person who wears your mug’s sarcasm or hangs your plaque in their office—that's equity. Not fake internet coin equity. Real, bankable, sellable brand equity.
Let’s look at the numbers.
The Amazon Margin Myth
The average Amazon seller loses 30-45% of their margin to fees, FBA storage, PPC ads, and forced coupon discounts to stay competitive. You’re not building a business; you’re running on a hamster wheel called the Buy Box.
Want the truth? Amazon customers aren't your customers. You don’t get their emails. You don’t get their browsing behavior. You can’t even follow up post-purchase without breaking the sacred TOS. And heaven forbid you get a return—it costs you more than the original order value half the time.
Now contrast that with owning your Shopify store.
The Brand-Owned Margin Advantage
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Product: $10
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Packaging: $2
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Shipping: $4
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Transaction fees: $1.50
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Retargeting ads: $2
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Total cost: $19.50
You sell it for $28.
You own the customer.
You retarget them via email for $0.
They buy again—no ad spend, no loss, just pure profit.
And here’s the kicker: that customer? They bring friends.
Turn One Customer Into Five: The Power of Brand Experience
Let’s say someone buys the "Sippy Cup of Shame" Toilet Mug from Teka Originals. It’s funny, it’s stupid, it’s sarcastic—and it hits a nerve.
They film themselves sipping oat milk from it. They tag @TekaOriginals. It hits 400 views on TikTok. No big deal. But wait—
Their co-worker sees it.
Their roommate wants one.
Their cousin in Milwaukee buys three.
Their ex texts, “WTF is this?”
Now they’re all customers too.
That’s how brand spreads organically.
No PPC. No algorithm tricks. No dancing on Reels.
Just a product so niche, so bold, and so perfectly you, it can't be replicated.
Brand Loyalty > Free Shipping
Let’s talk about the elephant in the room: Amazon Prime’s shipping drug.
Yes, people want fast. Yes, they expect free.
But what they remember is emotion—not speed.
Amazon will get you a yoga mat in 24 hours.
Teka will send you a mug that tells your boss what you really think.
One is convenience. The other is connection.
The emotional hit of finding a brand that gets you? That lasts longer than 2-day shipping.
Let’s Talk Data: The Hidden ROI of Owning Your Audience
Selling on your own platform means you have access to:
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Email behavior
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Product preferences
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Upsell/cross-sell performance
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Abandoned cart data
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Lifetime Value (LTV) tracking
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Reviews you can actually respond to without legalese
You’re no longer guessing what your customers want.
You’re building a system that turns sarcasm into sales.
The Cold Truth: Amazon Isn’t Evil—It’s Just Not Yours
This isn’t an Amazon hit piece. It’s a reality check.
You don’t own your storefront there. You’re borrowing space.
You don’t own your customers there. You’re renting attention.
You don’t own your reviews there. They can delete them without warning.
But when someone lands on your own website?
You’ve created an experience they don’t forget.
From the moment the home page loads to the last sarcastic punchline in the thank-you email—they know they’re not on Amazon anymore.
How to Build Brand Experience That Actually Converts
Here’s what you need to stop being a seller and start being a destination:
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A distinct, unfiltered brand voice (think: Stephen Matthews x Gen Z)
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Unapologetic product design
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Brutally honest product pages that sell through story
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Reviews that sound like people, not bots
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Cart flows that make people laugh, not groan
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An email welcome series that feels like an inside joke
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Packaging that becomes Instagram content
You're not just shipping a product. You're shipping a point of view.
Do’s and Don’ts of Brand Ownership in 2025
Do:
✅ Own your list. Your email list is gold—treat it like your 401(k).
✅ Use humor and real emotion. It builds loyalty faster than discounts.
✅ Talk like a human. Enough with the corporate filler text.
✅ Use platforms like BigCommerce to expand your reach without losing control.
✅ Post three times a week on LinkedIn if you want to be taken seriously in e-commerce today.
Don’t:
🚫 Rely solely on Amazon FBA. It’s a treadmill to nowhere.
🚫 Ignore customer service. That’s your true brand ambassador.
🚫 Sell products that don’t punch emotionally.
🚫 Use weak CTAs like “Shop Now” when you can say “Snatch Yours Before It’s Too Offensive to Sell.”
Final Word: You’re Not Just Building a Store—You’re Building a Movement
Owning your brand in 2025 isn’t just good business—it’s good humanity.
It means you're choosing to give people more than just stuff.
You're giving them a laugh.
You're giving them truth.
You're giving them relief in a world full of filters, lies, and fake 5-star reviews.
Teka Originals is more than sarcasm. It’s resistance through humor.
It’s showing up fully. Loudly. Boldly.
And that kind of presence?
That’s what scales.
That’s what converts.
That’s what leaves Amazon in the dust.